Another man in the house:
I glanced up and spied the human form of a man in my midst. A moment ago he was a boy, but that boy has suddenly vanished and now I gaze upon this mature creature who is perched on the cusp of adulthood.
There are other indications besides this casual visual observation that there is truly another man about.
- I now hear a baritone voice.
- There is an aroma emanating from this creature’s body that has the essence a men’s locker room.
- Laundry has become a bit more complicated with the sorting of underwear, sports socks, t-shirts, jeans, and so forth.
- No longer do I get the leftovers from a child’s plate. Instead I must tussle for that last slice of pizza or that last morsel of dessert.
Surprises abound in many ways:
- Sometimes the dishes are washed and put away.
- A small snack or meal gets prepared without guidance.
- Insightful, stimulating, mature, and educational discussions happen.
- Chores are shared and there is a wonderful feeling of collaboration and connection in making our home, our community, our society a better place.
I have been blessed with two children, a girl and a boy. Now, I am the proud papa of a woman and a man. It doesn’t get any better than this!
Have a great experience today and every day.
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